Things
to Think About Before the Wedding Day
Weddings
can be so demanding. Yes, they can take a lot from the groom and the bride when
they are struggling to plan everything perfectly. With regards to the bride and
the groom’s emotions, one just could not imagine what they have to go through
before the wedding. Although the coming special day gives so much excitement to
both of them, it also gives a lot of stressful feelings like anxiety and fear.
Why? Perhaps these words below will elaborate this.
1.
Before the actual wedding, the bride and the groom my feel like asking
themselves questions like: Am I really sure about this? Well, this may sound
really odd but this happens all the time at least if not to all, to many of the
brides and grooms out there. What if one day, two weeks before the wedding,
someone special comes your way? Lol.. Will it be too late to back out?
Questions like this may overwhelm a woman and a man at certain times. How do
they deal with this? They simply have to RELAX. Sometimes, psychiatrists say,
our emotions play with us especially if they are heightened. In the case of the
groom, he certainly would not propose to a girl when he is not sure in the
first place. Stay focused and look forward to the most-awaited day. For the
bride, on the other hand, look back on all the years you have waited for this.
Think about why you said yes(Winks*). Think about what you will lose if you
ever lose your mind and go for someone you have just met. Anyhow, this is just
a friendly advice and the decision still lies on you both.
2. Another thing that most brides and grooms
fear about is their future. They always tend to get anxious about this. In a
way, this is a good thing. Thinking about the future that they will have
together and worrying about it in a positive way help them mature. No couple
should rush into getting married without thinking about this. As a matter of
fact, normal couples and legal couples-to-be should think about this. In other
words, this should be a normal thing. In fact, this way of thinking, however
practical, is good for long-term relationships. But, too much of this is not
healthy anymore. Some brides and grooms eventually change their minds because
of fear. Although this case rarely happens, it should be avoided.
3. Lastly, future couples should be prepared
especially in matters of how to raise their family. This, in fact, should be
thoroughly thought about first during the period of the engagement. Things like
this should be one of the major concerns. In reality, all these things are
stressful to think about. But, the groom and the bride have to take efforts and
have to be sober in pondering these things. Remember that no couple is perfect.
It takes time, effort and sincerity to get things working well in the end.
lastly PRAY!
Thinking about these things before the
wedding just might be a great help.
cheers!
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